Saturday 4 May 2013

INTELLIGENCE-THE ULTIMATE APHRODISIAC


In my personal experience,one thing I've come to realize with the older women I've been with is that they all have a soft spot for intelligence.Women are generally attracted to men who study,think and have understanding.Talking about intelligence,as a guy you do not have to be a rocket scientist or an astronaut to get women to be attracted to you,however,i guaranty that you will not get them by being stupid either.

The vast majority of today's male are very much into the fast life,hip-hop music,partying and having a good time.these things aren't bad but such lifestyle becomes worrisome when it is all guys think about.Most guys from this generation do not even understand the reason behind setting up a government,guys go blank at the mention of the words 'stock exchange'.All they care about is having a good time and that's what life is all about as far as they understand.

As a guy reading this you might be thinking ,"well, I've got the fine looks and that's enough to get the ladies attention".True!women will notice you and perhaps want to get to know you even but you will need more than good looks to keep an older woman once you have gained her attention.These women aren't like the young girls who are mostly attracted to your looks,your car and your swag...older women desire more.These are mostly women in the working class with a very rich knowledge reserve laced with years of life's experience.To sustain a relationship with such women you must bring your A++ game and if all you have got is a handsome face and a sexy body,then it may not be enough because she has probably been with guys more handsome and more sexy than you who turned out to be complete babies,therefore,she might not want to waste her time with you unless of course if all she is after is a one night stand (ONS),friends with benefit (FWB) or, a no strings attached (NSA) relationship.

What is the smart thing to do?

Well, this might appear a surprise to many but it is very easy to overcome this problem.the way out is simply to keep a teachable spirit and be open to learning.older women know from experience that guys do not have monopoly to intelligence.they are aware that they might actually know a lot more than these guys and are always willing to teach and guide if only the guy asks the right questions that shows him as someone eager to learn and grow.Another intelligent problem that guys have with older women is knowing what to talk about.Because guys have been fed with the wicked misconception that all an older woman needs from a gigolo is sex in exchange for her money,guys mind always seem to drift towards the topic of sex and money,trying to impress these women with stories of their sexual prowess.However, today's women have grown beyond the role of baby making and sex symbols.women have gone ahead to do remarkably well in sports,politics and government,business,science and technology and of course entertainment.

The moment you realize that women are also capable and sometimes more intelligent than the males, beginning to see these women not only as sex symbols to be objectified you will find out there are so much more interesting topics to talk about with a woman besides sex.Now,sex on its own is a beautiful thing to talk about and experience with an older woman but at the same time the dangers of talking about it are so enormous.  as a guy you constantly have to watch out for pitfalls when discussing sex with an older woman.your choice of words must not be perceived as inappropriate or lacking maturity because that might send the wrong signal and make her lose interest.for example,not every woman finds the words hooters and boobies appropriate in a conversation so you might want to tone it down and seek more pleasant words in replacement.Knowing what to talk about is very important just as much as knowing when to be quiet.In the future I shall talk extensively about the intelligence in silence (when to speak and when to listen)but until then.....ciao

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